{"id":10902,"date":"2026-02-16T10:43:00","date_gmt":"2026-02-16T09:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/altinisik.org\/?p=10902"},"modified":"2026-02-16T10:43:00","modified_gmt":"2026-02-16T09:43:00","slug":"bir-nesil-yalniz-bir-nesil-kayip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/altinisik.org\/?p=10902","title":{"rendered":"Bir Nesil Yaln\u0131z, Bir Nesil Kay\u0131p"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avrupa\u2019da T\u00fcrk olmak, bir zamanlar al\u0131n teriyle yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir destand\u0131. Bug\u00fcn ise yava\u015f yava\u015f silinen, unutulan bir hat\u0131raya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Sessizce, fark ettirmeden, kimseyi \u00fcrk\u00fctmeden kayboluyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir tarafta \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc fabrikalarda, in\u015faatlarda, madenlerde t\u00fcketmi\u015f birinci nesil var. Dil bilmeden, destek g\u00f6rmeden, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman horlanarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f insanlar. Gen\u00e7li\u011fini bu \u00fclkelere vermi\u015f, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ise yaln\u0131zl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131layan bir ku\u015fak. Bug\u00fcn \u00e7o\u011fu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck evlerde, dar d\u00fcnyalarda, \u201ckimseye y\u00fck olmayay\u0131m\u201d diyerek susarak ya\u015f\u0131yor. Ziyaret\u00e7isi az, sesi duyulmuyor, de\u011feri ge\u00e7 fark ediliyor. Bu tablo sadece sistemin de\u011fil, bizim de ay\u0131b\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Di\u011fer tarafta ise kendi dedesiyle do\u011fru d\u00fczg\u00fcn konu\u015famayan bir gen\u00e7lik yeti\u015fiyor. T\u00fcrk\u00e7esi zay\u0131f, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc eksik, tarihi y\u00fczeysel bilen bir nesil geliyor. Biz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za iyi okullar, iyi meslekler kazand\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Ama kimlik kazand\u0131rmay\u0131 ihmal ettik. Diploma verdik, de\u011fer vermeyi unuttuk. Ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 \u00f6\u011frettik, aidiyeti \u00f6\u011fretemedik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn T\u00fcrk genci iki d\u00fcnyan\u0131n aras\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f durumda. Almanya\u2019da yabanc\u0131, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de Almanc\u0131. Hi\u00e7bir yerde tam kabul g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor. Ne tam buraya ait hissediyor ne oraya. Bu da zamanla \u00f6zg\u00fcven kayb\u0131na, kimlik bunal\u0131m\u0131na ve kopu\u015fa yol a\u00e7\u0131yor. Sonra \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131yoruz: \u201cBu gen\u00e7ler neden uzakla\u015f\u0131yor?\u201d \u00d6nce kendimize bakmam\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aile yap\u0131m\u0131z zay\u0131flad\u0131. Eskiden b\u00fcy\u00fckler rehberdi, evler okul gibiydi. \u015eimdi herkes yorgun, herkes me\u015fgul, herkes ge\u00e7im derdinde. \u00c7ocuklar ekranla b\u00fcy\u00fcyor, b\u00fcy\u00fckler yaln\u0131zl\u0131kla ya\u015flan\u0131yor. Aradaki ba\u011f her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn biraz daha kopuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Derneklerimizin \u00e7o\u011fu ise maalesef vitrin olmaktan \u00f6teye ge\u00e7emiyor. Ayn\u0131 y\u00fczler, ayn\u0131 koltuklar, ayn\u0131 konu\u015fmalar. \u00c7ok toplant\u0131, az \u00fcretim. \u00c7ok foto\u011fraf, az gelecek. Gen\u00e7lerin ilgisini \u00e7ekecek, onlar\u0131 i\u00e7ine alacak ger\u00e7ek projeler yok. B\u00f6yle giderse toplum g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc kaybeder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oysa bizim gelene\u011fimiz farkl\u0131yd\u0131. Biz aileyi merkeze koyard\u0131k. B\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6z\u00fc dinler, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc korurduk. Dilimize, dinimize, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcze sahip \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131k. Birlik olmay\u0131 bilirdik. Bug\u00fcn yeniden o akla, o disipline, o sorumluluk anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na d\u00f6nmek zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in insana yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r, k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcze uygun bak\u0131m sistemleri kurulmal\u0131. Gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in ciddi dil, tarih ve de\u011fer programlar\u0131 hayata ge\u00e7irilmeli. Aileler yeniden e\u011fitimin merkezine al\u0131nmal\u0131. Dernekler tabela de\u011fil, okul gibi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131. Y\u00f6neticiler koltuk de\u011fil, sorumluluk ta\u015f\u0131mal\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu mesele ne partiliktir ne ideolojidir. Ne sa\u011fc\u0131d\u0131r ne solcudur. Bu mesele var olma meselesidir. Bir toplum, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerini yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131rsa \u00e7\u00f6ker. Gen\u00e7lerini kaybederse biter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bug\u00fcn susarsak, yar\u0131n konu\u015facak kimse kalmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben susmuyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kaybolmak kader de\u011fildir. \u0130hmalin sonucudur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Avrupa\u2019da T\u00fcrk olmak, bir zamanlar al\u0131n teriyle yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir destand\u0131. Bug\u00fcn ise yava\u015f yava\u015f silinen, unutulan bir hat\u0131raya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Sessizce, fark ettirmeden, kimseyi \u00fcrk\u00fctmeden kayboluyoruz. Bir tarafta \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc fabrikalarda, in\u015faatlarda, madenlerde t\u00fcketmi\u015f birinci nesil var. Dil bilmeden, destek g\u00f6rmeden, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman horlanarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f insanlar. Gen\u00e7li\u011fini bu \u00fclkelere vermi\u015f, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ise yaln\u0131zl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131layan bir ku\u015fak. 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